The Parents I Met by Mansi Zaveri
Book Review by Dhiraj Sindhi
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| The Parents I Met by Mansi Zaveri |
Authors: Mansi Zaveri
ISBN: 978-0143459743
Genre: Non-Fiction | Parenting
Length: 296 Pages
Publication Date: 27th November 2023
Publisher: Ebury Press by Penguin Random House India
Cover Designer: Sparsh Raj Singh | LinkedIn: @sparsh-raj-singh-42ab647
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About the Author: Mansi Zaveri is the founder and CEO of India’s most trusted discovery platform for parenting and childcare, Kidsstoppress.com, which boasts a digital reach of 20 million people per month. She was also featured in Exchange4Media's Content 40 Under 40 list in 2020. Based in Mumbai, this mom of two took no time in combining her passion for the digital medium and her parenting journey to become an entrepreneur, leaving behind her corporate life to empower parents to make informed choices.
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| Mansi Zaveri |
Instagram: @mansi.zaveri
Disclaimer: This review is only intended to initiate discussions. The opinions and views presented in this article are my own and do not reflect anything about the book's author.
REVIEW
Mansi Zaveri’s The Parents I Met takes readers through the personal stories and parenting strategies behind some of India’s successful and influential individuals. Zaveri’s access to this cross-section of high achievers offers valuable insights into the emotional and psychological principles that guide effective parenting, providing readers with a wealth of anecdotes and lessons that are undeniably helpful for many parents looking to better understand the role they play in their children’s success. However, while the book has merit, it falls short in several areas, particularly when it comes to addressing broader cultural, social, familial, and class-related complexities.
At its core, the book excels in offering practical wisdom gleaned from parents who emphasize nurturing curiosity, allowing children to pursue their passions, and fostering a sense of independence. The anecdotes are compelling in their specificity, shedding light on how parents can encourage children to take calculated risks and navigate non-traditional paths or even traditional paths set by the parents themselves. However, despite these useful lessons, the book often leans into an idealized version of parenting, one that portrays family life as relatively harmonious and conflict-free. Parents in Zaveri’s interviews seem to always listen, support and eventually agree with their children’s unconventional choices. This presents an overly sanitized portrayal of the parent-child dynamic, one that lacks the messiness, friction, and negotiation that typically characterizes ordinary family relationships.
Zaveri’s line of questioning often results in repetitive and shallow insights. Time and again, the same themes emerge: give your children freedom within boundaries, let them make their own decisions, and allow them to follow their passions. While these are certainly important points, they are hardly groundbreaking. Beyond material wealth, the book also misses an opportunity to explore and acknowledge the social capital that is instrumental in these success stories. The parents of these successful individuals may not always be privileged, but they often have access to a broader network of intellectual or cultural resources, whether through education, social standing, or simply an enlightened approach to parenting that might be difficult to replicate in more constrained circumstances.
While it's undeniable that parenting and upbringing shape foundational aspects of a child's development, attributing success to parental influence oversimplifies a far more complex equation. The achievements of these individuals may reflect a confluence of personal resilience, broader societal factors, and opportunities beyond the scope of even the most conscientious parenting. Many individuals achieve greatness despite difficult or broken family dynamics. There are countless stories of people who have rebelled against parental expectations, overcome family trauma, or thrived in environments where emotional support was absent. These individuals often develop resilience, independence, and determination precisely because of the challenges they face, not in spite of them. The lack of such diversity suggests a somewhat narrow definition of what constitutes true accomplishment. It overlooks the myriad ways in which success can manifest and the varied circumstances from which people rise to prominence.
The concept of Mansi Zaveri’s book, while valuable in its exploration of parenting strategies behind successful individuals, is fundamentally flawed in its scope and representation. It excludes the realities of more diverse family backgrounds, particularly those from underprivileged, conflict-ridden, or non-traditional households. Expecting parents—especially parents outside the scope of these examples—to glean actionable insights from these idealized examples would be to assume that they reflect the full spectrum of parenting experiences.
Mansi Zaveri, the dynamic founder of Kidsstoppress, is undoubtedly a force to be reckoned with in the digital parenting space. Her keen eye for trends and deep understanding of parental needs have made her platform a go-to resource for many Indian parents. Yet, while her book deeply resonates with a specific audience, the broader applicability of it sometimes feels limited, leaving certain parenting experiences untapped.
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